The Breakup

Since this blog is mostly my thought on relationships and all, I thought we could talk a little bit about breakups.

They say that breaking up is hard to do. And now I know, I know that its true. Had to throw that in!
Sometimes you can just feel it coming. You haven't been talking as much, she's not making any time for you.
You start questioning your feelings and wondering if you should even be with them.
But breakups can also be a positive. It can lead to a time of reflection. Seeing what led to the relationship ending can help you see what areas in your life you may need to change. Other times it can lead to a nice long sulk, where no one can get you out of your funk.

I've been through both good and bad breakups. The best was when I was just sitting talking with the girl, and we both just decided that this thing wasn't working out. Heck, we're still friends. The worst? I think that was the one where I found out someone was cheating on me. I've totally forgiven that girl, though. It was years ago. Most were somewhere in the middle I guess. I tend to not take them very well at first, but I get over things kinda quickly.

While on your quest to find "THE ONE" you will probably experience this a few times. Don't let it get you down,though. It just means that there is someone better out there.

So share some stories! I'd love to hear from you guys.